Is there anyone else
than your own self with whom you can be filled with mirth and deeply worried or
disturbed at the same time , that too for the same reason?
What do you mean by
ego-less self, is there anyone else with whom you can show all your ego and get
that ego pampered, boosted and celebrated too.
What balcony person,
who knows your grief better than you own self? You will never be able to do
justice to your grief by voicing to another person, only the person who can
hear it on their own can understand it best.
You know your
capabilities, your weaknesses even if it is over blown by your watch dog person
or under estimated by your basement person, there is no other soul who
knows your limitations more than your own inner soul.
All these
relationships have derived some patterns of your reactions to the various
things, like your misty eyed sorrowful moments or gleeful over the top happy
moments,
but who knows that
the deepest of your grief is unknown to even your tear glands and the joyest
of your moments is not even celebrated by your own heart.
Who can give the
right scores for your strongest qualities, your darkest fears, your vulnerable
points, your randomness standards, and evaluate a decision for you. Even if
someone did, did you not vet it all through this inner self. Sometimes Waging a
war, sometimes signing a ever loving peaceful act. Because there was no one
else who knows an entirety of all those qualities.
The cruelest of all
wars are waged and the most tender of those hugs exchanged with just
your own self.
Nobody can push you
beyond any point that your mind doesn't accept or your heart does not desire
to.
You are your dream,
your best judge, your critic and your love.
I agree life hinges
on relationships and all the kinds of relationships I wrote about earlier exist
and are absolutely necessary for my world to go around, but there is no greater
relationship than with one's own inner self. There exists a reserved place for
a special someone with a very negligent gap between this inner self and them in
our hearts, but it exists only because that someone acknowledges this gap and
celebrates it much more than you do. As life goes on, this boundary might
diminish depending on how much of it you yourself allow.
Relationships is all
about what I allow it be to ME.
A very good post!!
Nice post! I liked the quote-You are your dream, your best judge, your critic and your love.