When with the
"Basement" people, if we know that they belong to this category, we
are at our "Cautious" best.
When with them, the best and worst boundaries fade and lose meaning.
Impudent selfishness, guileless selflessness,
Patience personified, weak threshold of temper,
Pre-occupied independence, a never busy self,
Genuinely caring self, blithe ignorance,
All in sheer contradiction in limitless bounds.
Leaps and bounds of thoughtlessness when being together and yet a lot of thoughtfulness in the relationship.
All because you don't fear the loss.
When with the
"Watch-dog" people while being watched over and chided, we are at our
"genuinely-guilty" best.
When with the
"Left-to-themselves" people, we are best left-to-ourselves and at our
"comfortable-no-pretense" best.
But there are some
people, with whom we are all our best and our worst too. They are the people to
whom we can afford to show our worst. All your best and worst, with no defined
intervals while exhibiting them, with no clear definition or line drawn between
your best and worst, with no conscious attempt to be either. You can be all of
it, only because, you have just "no fear of losing" them even if you
have been at your best or worst for any longer or shorter time spans. Best or worst, you don't fear losing them, because they are ONE in you.
They are, what I
call the "No-fear-of-losing-them" people, who are a blessing in my
life.
When with them, the best and worst boundaries fade and lose meaning.
Impudent selfishness, guileless selflessness,
Patience personified, weak threshold of temper,
Pre-occupied independence, a never busy self,
Genuinely caring self, blithe ignorance,
All in sheer contradiction in limitless bounds.
Leaps and bounds of thoughtlessness when being together and yet a lot of thoughtfulness in the relationship.
All because you don't fear the loss.
P.S: There probably is no such distinct category,
for some of us our balcony people may be one such, for some they might be our
cheer-time ones or any other category too.
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