I imagine the many
relationships as circles, concentric ones,
intersecting ones. The boundaries that separate these circles, depending
on their permeability levels, see the different layers and degrees of our
character and this geometry in our lives is a very interesting one.
You make that
conscious attempt and are using your intuitive best, to not let the undesired
people enter any of the circles, that s when you are drawing thicker lines for
them not to penetrate.
You start seeing the
differences in the people who reside in the same circles, that is when you draw
more concentric circles and fit them right.
You start realizing
the mistakes you have made in letting some people in, that is when you open
those boundaries, let these people out and close them in again.
You start seeing
similarities and yet some differences in the people, that is when you start
drawing some intersecting circles.
You , out of love
and trust , with great joy let people from outer circles take on different
roles in the inner circles, that s when you let some boundaries vanish or fade
slowly.
You, give a special
position to some one close to your own inner most circle, that is when you know
that your gap is respected and are sometimes willing to bridge that gap.
That is the science
of relationships in my world. I am extremely happy and feel blessed with the
circles I have drawn around myself, the different boundaries that merged, the
boundaries that I erased, the gap that was bridged, the boundaries that were thickened
, the boundaries that were made thinner and the many layers of concentric ones
that were made on the fly out of experience.
All of my circles
are all my life's worth.
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